Friday, 10 June 2016

Difficulties, Discoveries and Dreams

Hello my dear friends! The week has come to its logical end... the working week though :P The weekend is yet to begin. Yey! After my last complaint about unbearably hot weather in our city, the sky has had mercy on me and others, and we have been having rains and clouds on and off since then.  I cannot tell how exhausted I was in the past few weeks. Physically and mentally. But things seems getting more clear and resolving at last.
Oh yea, so what difficulties were (are) there that I had to mention them in the title? Many many things going on here currently. And nothing, what I learn again and again, is obtained with ease, especially, when this is something very important to you. We had to deal with loads of bureaucracy, paper work, calls, e-mails, calls again, e-mails again... We had lack of sleep, preparing for something, we had few arguments too and nice talks as well.
Dream keeper by Whimsical dreams
About discoveries now... We had to learn things about each other,something which may not have showed up in other situation. For example, I appeared to be very hesitant in talking to people, asking them something... D appeared to be rather impatient if things go not the way he wants. And much more I guess. The fact is that unless we started some important process in our lives we would have never got so many chances to sit and talk and discuss, and laugh, and encourage each other. We are nearing our 6th marriage anniversary - still so much to explore! We also had to discover that not all those who call themselves your "friends" are indeed "friends". Some events show their true face, true thoughts, true intentions. It is sad but angers me too. However I let it go... I understood that family is most reliable and most valuable in my life.
In addition to discoveries, I had to take a help from one of my university teachers in Moscow and coordinate things with her. Besides the fact that she was the only one who decided to help me and knew what exactly had to be done, she also appeared to be a blogger, and I enjoyed reading her insights in her personal life, her professional endeavors, and, most interesting, her poetry... How exciting it is that we discover something like this about persons who we seemed to  know but actually never had a chance to know better.
Ah well... and dreams. They are big, fat, promising, hopeful, and happy. We really expect that they realize as soon as possible.

I hope that everything is fine in your corner of the world, and that you also have dreams which keep you going...

16 comments:

  1. Keep moving forward! I know you'll overcome the difficulties and reach your goal!

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    1. Thanks Debra... We definitely will!

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  2. Life can be a tricky and chaotic. The same is true about those we share our time and lives with. It's sad when we realize that they are not as dedicated to us as we might've thought. But like you've discovered, life still goes on. And during difficult situations we discover great things about ourselves and about the people who are worth our while.

    I hope things continue to resolve themselves, and that your dream soon becomes a reality. ♥

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    1. It is Magaly... this is disappointing me but also teaches a lot. Surely, we also hope that our efforts won't go in vain.:)

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  3. Sending you big hugs my friend! I don't have a special person in my life, but I guess about being in a relationship, is being there, through the ups and downs, dealing with things, getting to know every little thing about one another and in the end, hopefully laughing about it all! 6 years, congrats!! So happy for the both of you! Friends?? Well, I have to say, some of my closest friends, are people who I have met on the internet. Life is always ever changing! Keep your heart open! Those friends that aren't around you now, goodbye! Forgive them and forgive yourself and get on with life! Never stop dreaming! Big Hugs!

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    1. Thanks you Stacy.. such good words. Indeed relations are about sharing, caring and loving. I am open to new friends and new places to go :))) Yey! Hugs back at you!

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  4. I hope things are OK in your part of the world...I'm glad that you and your husband are able to talk and work things out. so many couples just bottle it up until things blow.

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    1. Yes, thank goodness we are all right. Hope you too Jojo.
      Well, we also don;t do it frequently, so last few months brought a certain amount of swirl and thunder :) but we know that things will work out, just need to love each other more.

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  5. *H*A*P*P*Y* * *A*N*N*I*V*E*R*S*A*R*Y*!*!* and I hope you have a great weekend. ((hugs)), Teresa :-)

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    1. Hey Teresa! Thanks, the anniversary is on the 15th of June:)))
      hugs!

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  6. Hi Anna, Happy Anniversary to both of you:)
    I can understand ups and downs always come in life to which us and our partners respond in a different way than what expected. Life is a learning experience all the time. Mothers do get stressed out more, so either it converts into being frustrated all the time or social withdrawal happens .
    I don't know what paper work you got into trouble with, let me know if you feel I might be knowing.
    I remembered you this weekend as I visited New Delhi with my family to collect an award for Anshita at a function. It was a whirlwind visit and I also went to Karnaal (HR) and told Raj about you living in Chandigarh :) Thought I will email you after coming back but just saw your post today.

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    1. Hi Preeti! Thanks dear...
      Oh you were just few kilometers away from us, should have visited!I am glad Anshita keeps on achieving something :) Well done!!
      Sure, email me any time,sorry I have been really busy these days, and now also soon going home...yey!

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  7. I know it was ages ago, but you won a necklace on my blog and I need your address to send it to you! Please email me, you'll find the address on my blog under 'About' :)

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    1. Hello dear... That's an awesome news! Wow!! I remember those pretty necklaces on your blog! Will give the address in a private message. Thank you a lot! I am so happy)

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    2. Hello dear... That's an awesome news! Wow!! I remember those pretty necklaces on your blog! Will give the address in a private message. Thank you a lot! I am so happy)

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  8. Dear Anna,
    I hope all is well with you. Life is definitely all about difficulties and discoveries and dreams. You've said it all very well. I do hope that now you are seeing some of those dreams come true.
    Best wishes,
    Tammy

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